I was always extroverted, since I was small. It hurts a lot, because it's already difficult to be gay, and when you look in the mirror and see that your nose and your face aren't the norm, it gives the impression that you weren't made for that space, that that isn't your place.
And because of that, I found myself comparing myself to white men and asking myself why I wasn't like that, or how much easier everything would be if my skin was a bit lighter. Many times, I realize that because I'm black and gay, I'm seen as an exotic choice, but never attractive. "When you look in the mirror and see that your nose and your face aren't the norm, it gives the impression that you weren't made for that space." What I would've liked is someone to have stood up for me and defended me." - Bruno Barroso, 24 years old.Ĩ. And, as a result, I started straightening my hair. I thought it was fine and played along, but then I realized that it hurt. If you try to resist the stereotype, you're passed over, ignored, and left behind.Īn ex-boyfriend of mine would laugh when his friends made jokes about my hair. In other words, I MUST act like an alpha male, a strong, wild, sensual bad boy. I feel that the objectification goes beyond the physical and is even behavioral.
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